What We Do?
Qualification, Rapport, speed and continuity:
Entre Nous has almost 20 years of experience in successfully matching single men and single women. Our leading one-on-one dating service has an 89% success rate and is most effective in ensuring you form a long- term relationship. In nearly 20 years Entre Nous has achieved:
•3000+ relationships
•1330 weddings
• Only 9 divorces in 20 years
• 89% success rate
So how do we do it?
Firstly we have a large database of professional single men and single women whom we have qualified. This also ensures that we can promptly provide a wide range of introductions to interesting people. We believe it's important to have a choice to best suit your needs, values and lifestyle.
We know that dating is not an exact science. So while we use some tried and tested processes we also use our unique personality test. This is also why we conduct extended searches and target single men or single women with certain characteristics to ensure that your specific needs, values and lifestyle are matched. Our one-on-one personalised process ensures that we know as much as possible not only about you but also the single men or single women to whom we introduce you. We work as a team with you.
Aside from regular one-on-one reviews with your consultant, she is always available for dating tips and moral support where required. The feedback you and the single men or single women you meet offer, give us comprehensive insight which help us fine-tune matching until you achieve your goal.
What we can do for you• Help you achieve your goal
• Facilitate your journey
• Regularly assess your progress
• Give advice based on feedback we receive
• Provide tips to ensure you attract people
• Show you how to be alert to warning signals
• Ensure you are confident that your long-term needs will be met
Relationships
Rewarding Partnership, Long-term Relationship, Soul Mate, Best Friend or a Successful Marriage
Entre Nous’ main purpose is to assist their valued clients to form a long-term relationship. Many clients are seeking a successful marriage whilst other single women and single men prefer a committed relationship without marriage.
For people who prefer a defacto relationship we recommend that you read the legal definition under the heading “Legal Issues for Singles” under resources.
There are other singles who just want a companion with whom to attend events, theatre, movies, sporting fixtures and maybe as a travel companion too.
At Entre Nous, our staff are experienced and fully trained relationship consultants and educators. We show our valued clients how to determine and seek their long-term needs for a successful relationship.
Our Client Relations Team have conversations around subjects like ‘looking for warning signals’ for those who feel they have previously made an unfortunate choice.
Entre Nous staff show single men and women how to attract the type of people that would be most appropriate for a long-term relationship.
We discuss the difference between a woman’s brain and a man’s brain, what is important to a man as distinct from what is important to a woman.
We, at Entre Nous are determined that each valued client is given a good choice of people to choose from.
Once partnered, Entre Nous helps members to manage the risk in each couples’ relationship by encouraging them to enrol in our Couples Course. By attending the Couples Course, couples have a 30% better chance of success in their long-term relationship or marriage.
What to Expect...
1. Obligation free meeting at our premises (1 1/2 hours) to ascertain your needs, values and lifestyle requirements and suitability for this program- • Discussion of program options to suit you
- • Enrolment, personal profile prepared with your input
- • Understanding more fully what is important to you...?
- • What type of person you would like to meet?
- • Brief outline of family background & relationship history
- • Explanation of the Entre Nous process and how it works and how to maximise your opportunities
- • You receive introductions personally chosen by the Client Relations matching team
- • You arrange to meet, have fun and tee up an activity meeting e.g. cycling, tennis or visit an art gallery
- • You provide feedback privately left at our website
- • Discussion of feedback submitted to assist us to fine-tune future matching
- • Feedback provided from the people you have met
- • Tips and advice provided
Special Features
1. One-on-One Introductions: Entre Nous offers one-on-one introductions because we have learned these are most effective in helping you form a long-term relationship. Conversely, whilst on-line dating may provide a quick fix there are inherent dangers and its success in helping people form a committed relationship is at best questionable.
2. Assurance: With online dating you can never be sure who you are meeting. Are they married? Older than they say they are? Are they showing realistic photos of themselves? Are they being honest? Entre Nous' members feel very comfortable and confident in the Entre Nous dating process because we know the single men and single women we introduce you to. We have seen proof of their age, we know exactly what they look like and we know their personalities. Entre Nous takes the role of a friend introducing you to someone they know and trust who is compatible with you.
3. Support: Most online dating sites provide no support at all. They do not know you, what you require and who would best suit you. It isn't a personalised service and, for busy people, online dating can be time consuming with little end reward. Entre Nous' one-on-one introduction service is consistently successful because our Relationship Consultants, who take the time to get to really know your needs, values and lifestyles, are actively matchmaking you with suitable single men or single women. Your time is not taken up with trawling for possibilities as in online dating or speed dating, rather it is spent enjoying the company of potential suitors - hand picked for you.
4. Time-Saving: It may be quick to add your profile to an online dating site but if you don't spend time working on your profile you are unlikely to have much success. Each person Entre Nous introduces you to is a single, professional person who is genuinely interested in forming a relationship as you are.
5. Relationship Enhancement: Entre Nous requires involvement and investment from you. If the end result is that you are in a committed relationship, surely this is better than having your time and emotional energy wasted online? Our members find our relationship enhancement programs, regular reviews and close contact with their personal consultant, monthly newsletters and other services to be helpful elements of the dating process. Many single men and single women enrol at Entre Nous after trying online dating with little success (and we have heard some not-so-good stories). So if you are serious about forming a relationship soon, do join Entre Nous to ensure that your goal is achieved promptly. What you get is what you pay for.
Benefits
Safety, confidentiality & reputation
1. Safety: Single women in particular feel safe using the Entre Nous dating service. All male clients have been qualified, identified and we get to know them well. Our staff, too, are fully trained to respect your privacy. See our Privacy Policy
2. Confidentiality & Reputation: People come to Entre Nous because they know that their information is safe with us and they know of us by reputation as offering a safe, proven way of meeting other eligible single women and single men.
3. Services:- • New Members in-depth consultation with our Matching Consultant who is a trained Relationship Coach
- • The Entre Nous database includes 2,500 people looking for a relationship
- • Dating coaching and relationship facilitation
- • Workshops on Communication & Relationships
- • Feedback provided at your review
- • Monthly Newsletter
- • Articles on dating advice
- • Relationship Skills Program for you and your new partner
- • Dance Classes and other affiliated social events
- • Books and e-books on dating and relationships
These benefits are insignificant when compared with the outcome – a partner of your dreams.
Testimonials
Don't just take our word for the Entre Nous successes; here are the comments of other men and women who have flourished through the Entre Nous program...
July 8
Hello Rosalind,Thankyou for introducing me to Peter, our relationship going well. I am having so much fun getting to know him, he is a fantastic guy. It is so nice to be treated like a lady, he has bought me flowers on two occasions now. Wheter we are going out for a special event or just relaxing have a coffee on a lazy Sunday afternoon I am having fun. Regards
L………………
July 3
Hello Rosalind
Good to hear from you, Trust you are well. I am still with P . . . . , we are both having a great time, doing a lot of things together which otherwise we would not be doing. Life is pretty good. Almost 2 years since we met, THANK YOU, we never imagined it would turn out this way, It's all to do with timing I think !!
I gave her a Surprise for New Years Eve, I took her on that Scenic flight to Antarctica, it was fantastic, we can definitely recommend it if you get the opportunity to do it.
I haven't managed to take her fishing yet, but she is certainly enjoying a lot of Fresh Fish, I don't think she had ever eaten real Fresh fish in her life !!
Regards P . . . . . .
22nd March
My experience with Entre Nous was a very enjoyable one. The 3rd person I met is now my wife, and our 2nd anniversary is 3 weeks away. I would not hesitate to recommend Entre Nous to people.
S.
16th March
I have been with this girl for 5 months and would consider getting couples counseling which is something I previously wouldn't have considered however my experience with Entre Nous has given me insight on how to develop a relationship.
V.
2th February
Yes I guess it is just a matter of time, and patience I am very very happy to be with L. Being in a committed relationship with someone I love is fantastic and this is where I am now. What Entre Nous has taught me is that I don't need to be in a relationship at all costs and it is important to be with the partner that you really want to be with.
R.
2nd April
Yes thank you so much. I am now happily married. I met S. in October 2006. We got married on April 12, 2008. We will be nearly celebrating our second year wedding anniversary. Thank you once again Entre Nous.
F.
20th January
Yes, because B. is not someone I may have approached on my own but he is the best that has ever happened to me.
S.
28th February
I really enjoyed the Entre Nous experience and I learnt a lot about myself and how to be in a loving relationship from you. I am now married to a wonderful man and expecting our first baby. Thank you very much.
M.
20th March
For sure, C. and I are now in a committed relationship.
J.
10th February
I am extremely happy with the partner I met through Entre Nous and hope to have many years enjoying his company. I just wish we had met 20 years ago.
P.
6th February
I was fortunate to meet my now (B. ) towards the end of my 6 months with Entre Nous. The Entre Nous experience provided me with different opportunities to meet a diversified group of people who I may not have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. I viewed this as part of the journey I needed to take to understand what I wanted out of a relationship.
S.
2nd April
Entre Nous is the best decision I've ever made for myself.
M.
15th January
The opportunity of meet a number of people who, like me wanted to establish a relationship but were having difficulty finding people and being confident with them, all this helped me realise I have lots to offer and the other person is probably just as uncertain as me.
M.
6th February
With the initial introductions I was not really sure of what I wanted and it wasn't until I had met several different people that I started to have an understanding of what I was looking for. I now feel that I have a better idea and I also feel more confident when meeting new people that I can assess our compatibility. I am also more understanding of the other person's perspective and so feel I can be more relaxed.
I have not formed a committed relationship with anyone as yet but I feel that Entre Nous has helped me develop a clear understanding of what I am looking for.
K.
July 1
Dear Rosalind
All is going very well, and J . . . . . . whom I met through EN is my close friend and companion. We enjoy travel concerts, walks and lots of laughs together. I reflect occasionally how different my life would have been if I had not approached EN over 2and a half years ago.
I also reflect on the very professional process used by EN and compare it with incidental comments made by women who contact RSVP to meet 'dates'. It seems to me that they are meeting men who want to have a 'smorgasbord of choices' available.
Yours sincerely M . . . . . .
July 3
Hi Rosalind,
Thanks for your email. I am 5 months into a relationship with a wonderful man. Although I didn’t meet him through Entre Nous, the confidence and social skills I gained through my EN experience certainly led to me forming a relationship with him initially.
Regarding referrals, I would be happy to recommend a single friend of mine, I will refer her to your website .
Regards
L . . . . . . .
June 30
Hi Rosalind
Thank you for your email, and thinking of me.
All is going rather well with me at present. I've been seeing a wonderful man for about 8mths, and things are progressing well. P. . . . . . . loves coming to church with me, and he is also very supportive with my son and schooling.
I want to thank you for all the opportunities I had to practice meeting men while in your program, it was one of the best things I did during that time, even though I didn't meet anyone seriously. You showed me how to have fun without the pressure of thinking will this work or not. Just enjoying the moment.
Kind regards J . . . . . .
July 2
Hi Rosalind
Yes, things are going well for me and I am very happy. Even though I did not meet my partner through you, I do want to say thankyou for all your support and assistance. At the start, I thought the experience was going to be quite daunting but all of you made the fear disappear and gave me a good boost to getting the confidence to meet new people. Thank you!
Regards
S . . . . . . . . .
6th April
J. and I have a committed relationship which suits us both very well. We both have our own independent lifestyle routines, while meeting for concerts, outings, family and social events and traveling together.
M.
July
Dear Rosalind,
Thank you for your email. I am happy to say that I am now in a committed relationship and very much in love. This would not have happened if I had not had the guidance of Wendy and the chance to meet many wonderful people through EN. There was much that I needed to learn after my 28 year marriage ended and Wendy played a vital part in that learning as did the many kind and wonderful women I met through EN.
I would surely encourage any singles I know to contact EN,
All the best for your future,
Best regards D. . . . . .
2nd April
Fortunately I am still with the first man I met with Entre Nous, after 4 1/2 years. I would never have met him If I had not joined Entre Nous. Things are going OK at this stage.
L.
8th May
Dear Wendy
Thank you so very much for your time this morning. I came home feeling positive and excited about moving forward. I very much appreciated your warmth, candour and wisdom.
I look forward to talking more.
Regards
K...
10th March
Hello Wendy,
Sorry for taking so long to write back to you. Guess I am having so much fun that I forget some of the things that I should do.
As I promised here are some thoughts/comments on my experiences thus far with Entre Nous :
I have to say that when I started with Entre Nous I was very nervous and I had no idea what to expect out of it. I have been so fortunate that all of my introductions are such wonderful people whom I have enjoyed many great times with. I think I had forgotten what it was like to have so much fun with new people. I am now doing many fun and interesting things that I would probably never have done otherwise.
The support Entre Nous provides is fabulous, from the educational classes, the feedback you receive in your regular reviews, to the positive energy and encouragement you receive from all the staff. You feel like everyone is truly there to help you in your journey. I have found the member events you organise also a great way of meeting new and interesting people.
When I received the e-mail about the Samba dancing classes my first thoughts were " I can't do that, I will just embarrass myself in front of all the ladies ". Then I thought " the Brazilian dancing looks like so much fun, what have I got to lose to go to one class ? ". So I just went to the first class and I have to say it was much more fun than I ever imagined. The teacher Lia is fantastic, the people you meet are all great, every class is more fun than the previous one and Samba dancing is also a great form of exercise. After the class we go out for drinks and sometimes we go onto the Copacabana club in Fitzroy to practice our dancing. I have made many new friends through the Samba dancing which I otherwise may not have.
The Entre Nous process works, keep up the good work. I have learnt so much more about myself and it has given me more self confidence in meeting new people.
My only regret, if you can call it that, is I wish I had the courage to join Entre Nous sooner. We all can think too much at times, instead of just saying to ourselves." If I think it will make me happy then Just Do It !".
Warmest regards,
P………………………
| 5th September Dear Rosalind Thank you for your letter - I've been meaning to write to you for some time. Bill and I married in April this year and spent 6 weeks overseas on our honeymoon. |
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| We've told all our friends and family about how we met at Entre Nous - a bit of a challenge for me at first but ultimately liberating. Thank you for your service. I probably would never have found a partner any other way as I was far too shy (and truth be told, socially inept) to meet men off my own bat. Attached is a photo of the happy couple! Warm regards |
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7th July
Hello Rosalind,
Thank you for your email. In a nutshell - P… and I are very happy together! I shall try and give you a call in the next few days to tell you more. In the meantime, could you please send me some more information about the relationship education course.
Many Thanks!
Many thanks also for introducing us! It's been six wonderful months - looking forward to many, many, many more!
Best regards
V…. (name supplied)
1st July
Hello Rosalind,
Just to let you know that M… and I met through Entre Nous in September 2004, and starting seeing each other regularly after our “second date”. We got on extremely well, and started living together in November 2005. We are now engaged, and plan to marry next year.
So thanks for matching us up so well!
Regards,
H… (name supplied)
26th July
Dear Rosalind
I received your letter asking how we are going. J… and I will celebrate our second wedding anniversary in August. Our son is 1 year old.
Our relationship is going very well, we are very happy.
Thank you for your help !!
Kind regards
B…. (name supplied)
First child for both, B… is 44 and J… is 51 years old
22nd July
Hi Rosalind
A recent letter from you reminded my wife and I to let you know our thanks.
E…. and I were married on 30 June this year after being introduced in September 2005.
We both wish to say thank you for the chance to meet some one simply wonderful that we both say was outside of our normal networks. I can honestly say that the best thing I ever did was follow the Entre Nous process.
Kind regards
R…. and E…. (names supplied)
R….
CEO and Managing Director
7th July
Dear Rosalind
Many thanks for your email.
Just to let you know that P… and I were married in March of this year.
He is truly a remarkable man!
Best wishes (and many thanks)
Dr H….. (name supplied)
Director of Medical Education
30th June
Hi Rosalind,
I am going away for the next month, so I wont be able to call you, but am happy to let you know how I am going with my relationship.
I was married in January 1996, and things are going wonderfully!!
Thanks for thinking of me, and I must certainly keep your wonderful service in mind for any remaining single friends that I have.
Kind regards
F…. (name supplied)
3rd May
Dear Rosalind,
Meeting different women
Although Entre Nous has been an amazing, interesting, educational and a fun
experience - you also learn a lot about yourself which you would otherwise
not find out.
There is no other way to find someone you can relate to - in fact doing it by 'chance'- i.e. hoping you will meet someone in your daily normal life - is equal to the chance of lightening striking you in the driveway of your home. I have told this to many people in just this way.
As you have correctly said, you usually cannot pick at first glance who you will get on best with - sometimes it is a great surprise.
Then there are the occasions when you like someone and they don't feel the same way- it would be nice to know why for your own benefit but you rarely know this- perhaps the other person may not want to say.
Personal contact is so much superior to computer (impersonal and subject to misleading information) contact. The sound of someone's voice is very important. Some women love incredibly enhancing voices and some have broad drawl (a la Julia Gillard)
These are only a few thoughts - more to follow.
Regards, S..... (name supplied)
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What makes you better than other introduction agencies?
- The people we enrol are qualified, professional, attractive and pleasant.
- We offer expertise and close personal attention from qualified facilitators.
- We offer a guarantee.
- We have a large database and access to up to 2,500 single professional people.
- We can offer you introductions immediately.
2. What are my chances of success?
If you are successful in other areas of your life you will no doubt be successful in finding a partner too. With our large database and the expertise we offer - you can’t miss.
3. Do you guarantee a number of introductions?
Yes we do. Before you join you will enter into a written agreement with Entre Nous which includes the number of introductions we have agreed upon and your specified needs.
4. Can you give me a guarantee that I will be successful?
Yes we can offer you extra introductions if you have not succeeded.
5. I have been divorced twice what chances have I of succeeding in a long term relationship?
Every chance, our Client Relations Team has accredited qualifications in relationship facilitating and can offer you the necessary expertise in choosing a partner. Once you have formed a relationship we would encourage you to enrol in an Entre Nous Relationship Course for Couples which doubles your chances of success in the relationship.
6. I am very very shy and have never even dated before how can you help me?
Firstly you will not be dating, just doing informal activities. We have a special training program for shy people to help you overcome shyness. We recommend that you make friends rather than dating and will show you many techniques to make the journey more enjoyable, fun and relaxed.
7. I don’t want to get married. I would just like to meet more people. Do all your members want to get married?
Not necessarily. This is an ideal way of meeting new like minded people – people with similar values, intellect and lifestyles. If you did happen to fall in love with one of them, it would be OK because as well as being attractive they would fit in with your lifestyle.
8. I am very fussy; do you think you can provide a good range of attractive people?
We can help most people. If you are seeking a crown prince or titled person you are better off to try an agency in Europe but other than that we have access to appropriate professional people.
9. What say I don’t like anyone I meet?
You would be the first person who did not like everyone. We normally weed out the types who do not like anyone.
10. I am very busy and frequently out of town wouldn't my membership be wasted?
No, we would suspend your membership whilst you were away or too busy to meet people.
11. Are you sure that your clients will like me?
If we believe we can find you a partner, be rest assured that our members will like you. We do not enrol people that we would feel uncomfortable introducing to our valued members.
12. I am going overseas for three months later in the year is it worthwhile joining now?
Of course, start this exciting journey now. To avoid wasting your membership, we can place your membership on hold whilst you’re away.
13. Do you have a Lifetime Membership?
No. No clients have ever been prepared to spend the rest of their lives seeking a partner. If we offered a lifetime membership we would be admitting that it takes a lifetime to find you a partner. We expect to find you a partner, within 12 months.
Please click here if you would like to ask your own question for Rosalind.
Case Studies
- Case History - Shyness
- Case Study - Treating a Woman Like a Purchase
- Case History - Lacking Confidence
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