Building relationships helps you find a Partner by Rosalind Baker

When seeking a lifelong partner, we cannot judge prospective single men and single women solely on their looks and interests. One has to build a relationship to learn about them. Building a relationship takes time, gradually, step by step.

If you make a silly mistake with a single woman or single man you hardly know, you most probably will not be forgiven because he/she doesn't know your better qualities. On the other hand if you made the same faux pas with an old friend, you will probably, be forgiven readily. We are quicker to forgive an old friend as our tolerance is based on the knowledge (we have gleaned over time) that their good points outweigh their bad ones and that's why we love them. And that's why building relationships is important when seeking a partner.

In your career, you know the value of building relationships. It is no different in your personal life. When you join a new company some of the colleagues may not appear too interesting until you see them perform. Once you are aware of their achievements they become more interesting. The same applies at sporting and other activity clubs. The members who may not impress you at first will be viewed from a completely new perspective after you see them perform.

When you think you have nothing in common with the single man or single woman you have met, try to bridge that gap. Search for something interesting about that person. If you look you will find it. It is satisfying to ferret out his depth or her inner beauty. This will not only raise your self esteem, but others will also find you more appealing than if you were dismissive and popular people always get the best catch.

Don Juan was the world's greatest lover – loved by thousands of women of all ages and walks of life. Not because of his sexual prowess but because he had the ability to draw out the very best out of others and then show his appreciation of their inner beauty. You too can discover the single woman or single man's depth or her inner beauty. You may not be as charming as Don Juan at first but with practice at building relationships, step by step, by taking a keen interest your charm will become automatic. Gaining new skills takes time and practice but the sense of achievement you feel gives a tremendous confidence boost; and who isn't attracted to a confident single man or single woman?

"If you seek a friend, be one." Make this your motto and you will create your own luck.

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