PRESS KIT 12th December 2008
Why are Australia's top IQs not reproducing?
Who are the most difficult people to find partners for?
Do opposites attract?
These are some of the questions that only an experienced operator like Entre Nous can answer.
This package is designed to provide you with information about Australia's leading introduction agency, Entre Nous.
Entre Nous is almost in its 20th year of successfully matching single professionals in Melbourne.
Despite the prevalence of online dating, we advocate more traditional methods of finding a partner. Increasingly, those wanting to form long term, successful relationships are attracted to our holistic approach. From Image Consulting to Life Coaching and Relationship Education, it takes much more to match the X and Y Generations than it did our parents.
As founder of Entre Nous, I am author of three best selling books on relationships a social commentator and am an experienced speaker and writer on relationships.
Please keep this kit on file for future reference.
We welcome any opportunity to contribute with comments and views on all issues relating to single life, dating, marriage, relationships, how to find a partner, how to sustain a permanent relationship and more.
Many thanks,
Rosalind Baker
Principal
Entre Nous
(03) 9669 6000
0402 017 243
rb@entrenous.com.au
This Media Kit Contains
How and why we became a cut above our competitors
Why Yasmine Failed
Want to be a dad? Don't wait!
Online Dating is Dangerous
Relationship Education Key to Success
Entre Nous is almost 20 years old
The Business of Love
singles.net.au OR entrenous.com.au
Entre Nous An Overview
How Entre Nous Operates
Rosalind Baker Biography
Contact us
How and why we became a cut above our competitors
Like any business, but especially given the nature of our industry, it is important for Entre Nous to reach new clients.
One of our greatest challenges is promoting the service we provide a holistic approach to finding members a long-term relationship to an audience which is increasingly time poor and looking for a quick fix solution to all problems.
However, improving work-life balance through a long-term, meaningful relationship is rarely something you can achieve through a band-aid solution. Band-aid solutions like online dating or services that aren't thorough and careful in matching. Such services may fill a void in the short term but they will often come unstuck leaving the client back at square one having lost time and missed opportunities.
Entre Nous' service is the opposite of quick-fix; it is our aim to create successful partnerships through a holistic approach:
Social events allow guests to experience the Entre Nous spirit
Introductions based on shared values not just superficial traits
A relationship guarantee
Reviews, image consulting, life coaching and counselling
Relationship education for those in committed relationships
A value-added website, which is about providing members and prospective clients with valuable information and insights not just a sales pitch.
These services, establish Entre Nous as one of Melbourne's leading introduction services. However, Entre Nous does more than simply introduce, we aim to ensure long-term, relationship success.
Melbournian singles may be tempted by the cheap and easy online dating option, but once people realise that this is a short-term fad they will be looking for the better alternative. The alternative where the result is busy people being able to spend time with a partner rather than searching in a vain for one.
Welcome to Entre Nous!
By Ildi Amon
Why Yasmine Failed
Channel Ten's show, Yasmine's Getting Married was unceremoniously dumped after only 2 weeks. Poor ratings are blamed for the show's demise after opening with only 778,000 viewers well short of the Network's dream target of one million for its opening night.
However, this lackluster response from viewers could not have been anticipated given the current obsession with dating, marriage, singledom and how to escape it.
Realistically, the likelihood of Yasmine's wedding ending in happily ever after was always going to be slim. Remember, Yasmine spends 9 weeks not with her fiancιe but on a raft of blind dates one of which she ends up marrying. So how well does she actually know the guy she ends up with?
The blind dates are administered by a panel of people who don't really know Yasmine and clearly care more for pulling the ratings than finding Yasmine a husband. And what if Yasmine didn't want to marry any of the men the panel served up or, worse still, what if the chosen man didn't want to marry her? Nope, Channel Ten was adamant a white wedding season finale there would be.
The show didn't work not because of lack of interest in single life and dating but because the audience could tell it was a fake. The show would have ended in a wedding, sure, but probably not in a long term relationship. People understood that this was an unrealistic, unnatural way to decide on whom to marry.
But in real life, many people make the same mistakes as Channel Ten. They expect romance (not friendship) to be the hallmark of a good relationship, they believe that a quick fix like online dating can provide a solid, long-term relationship and they believe that physical and often superficial traits like shared age and hobbies are indicators of what will be a relationship success.
Rosalind Baker, founder of Entre Nous, believes that seeking a partner with the core values that you believe will ensure a sustainable relationship. "Entre Nous is all about understanding your values and needs, encouraging friendships and taking measures like relationship education and life coaching to ensure your relationship is successful."
Want a relationship? Perhaps Yasmine and the thousands of men who attempted to join the cast should be calling Entre Nous. By Ildi Amon
Want to be a dad? Don't wait!
It's a common argument that women should put baby plans ahead of career plans should they want to beat the biological clock and have the best chance of pregnancy success. However, this argument should apply to men as well.
A couple's risk of their pregnancy ending in miscarriage increases along with the father's age not just the mother's age as previously thought.
So, while it has long been thought that a man can be a father at any age no matter how late in life, this is proving to be untrue.
Men should not put their relationship and baby plans on hold with the hope that once the career plans are in place the baby plans will smoothly follow.
Founder of Entre Nous, Rosalind Baker, says "men and women should aim for work/life balance; a relationship need not hinder career success. If you're thinking of children you must not put relationship plans on hold."
Indeed, studies have shown that balance between work and personal life improves performance at work.
So the lesson for men: don't put off forming a relationship and having children because you are too busy with your career. A meaningful relationship improves your career performance and your biological clock ticks just like that of your female counterparts.
By Ildi Amon
Online Dating is Dangerous
An Australian expert on the dating industry has issued another warning about the risks of trying to find a partner online.
Ms Rosalind Baker, a Melbourne author and Principal of the long established Entre Nous Introduction Service, says online dating is unregulated and poses many risks to females as well as males.
"A 50 year old separated woman told me she had a series of photos air-brushed to be used for online dating."
"The photos were extremely successful, making her look 25 years' younger. Not surprisingly she received more than 150 replies."
"But if appearance and youthfulness were the key factors, then her male callers would eventually have felt let-down," she said.
Ms Baker said of course some people were successful in finding a partner online but there are hidden dangers with male predators trawling online.
"Obviously I have my own barrow to push but an introduction service, such as Entre Nous, ensures the dating process is much more selective and safe.
"We screen our clients to eradicate risks and dangers for both men and women. "When men come to us we can draw a picture of who our prospective clients are and what they are doing with their lives. We can quickly gather some idea about their personality, virtues and even flaws."
Ms Baker, recognised as one of Australia's leading authorities on courtship, has written two best-sellers "Dial A Man" and then a sequel, "Dial A Woman".
"With online dating, there is always the risk of misrepresentation."
"People lie about their age, their weight; they produce old photographs or airbrushed photos. Our service is regulated."
"We are told that many people often wile away their time trawling online. People looking for partners, however, need to be warned that there are inherent dangers searching for 'Mr or Ms Perfect' online."
By Ildi Amon
Relationship Education Key to Success
Rosalind Baker, an expert on relationship issues, says couples today should be forced to undergo government accredited courses aimed at managing the risk in relationships before being issued with a marriage license.
Ms Rosalind Baker, Principal of Entre Nous Victoria's leading relationship consultants and educators, says if governments were prepared to fund such courses, it would save taxpayers and the economy millions of dollars brought about by divorce.
Ms Baker, who has been assisting professionals form successful relationships for almost 20 years, says relationship education teaches couples to seek help before it is too late to save a partnership.
"Even minor issues must be resolved because unresolved small issues can accumulate until communication reaches an impasse. "Ninety percent of couples who seek counselling have left it too late.
"Young adults need to pass a test before they can drive a car. It's not unrealistic to expect couples to undergo relationship training before making serious personal commitments."
The Entre Nous principal says a simple eight-hour course in relationship education doubles the chances of a successful marriage.
Ms Baker says a government-funded course may save taxpayers millions in the divorce courts as well as grants for single parents.
Ms Baker points out that an accredited course teaches a couple how to seek help if need be. Even more importantly to recognise an issue and the action that needs to be taken to resolve it.
Ms Baker believes the next generation will have a much lower divorce rate. "We will see a turnaround with marriages again lasting a lifetime."
"The next generation is the product of divorce it scarred their childhood to the extent that they will go to great lengths for a solution. New generations are taught to seek answers and they will want answers on relationships and how to make them work."
By Ildi Amon
Entre Nous is almost 20 years old
Leading introduction service, Entre Nous is almost 20 years old! Almost two decades Entre Nous has had a hand in over 1000 marriages and thousands of long-term partner ships. Approximately 300 people each year form a permanent relationship through Entre Nous.
Leading commentator on courtship and Entre Nous Principal, Rosalind Baker, suggests that the company's success results from acknowledging that "busy people would rather spend their time with a partner rather than searching for one."
Entre Nous' services are more popular than ever with more and more single professionals turning to the dating service for support in finding a partner. Despite a boom in online dating, people are realising that the service Entre Nous offers is a safer and more successful option.
Rosalind Baker believes that Entre Nous is a leader in the industry because it is well-respected amongst single professional men and women. Women believe it's safe and men look to see where the women go and follow suit.
"Our clients are professional people with high standards and we keep those high standards too." Entre Nous is Australia's only introduction agency with Quality Assured standards. This makes Entre Nous trusted amongst its clientele who know and expect the best.
Entre Nous' research shows that, for busy professionals, finding a like-minded partner can add balance to an otherwise hectic lifestyle.
Rosalind says of her recent marriage to Tom Baker, "we highly recommend it
All our pleasures are 10 times greater and our woes seem to have halved since we married."
Since Entre Nous' beginnings in 1991, the company has added to its one-on-one introduction service by implementing social events, workshops, life coaching, relationship education and image consulting.
By Ildi Amon
The Business of Love
Entre Nous does not encourage immediate "romance." It recommends an initial coffee then activities rather than late night wining and dining
Its research shows there are 166,000 single professionals in Melbourne. Several hundred people have shown an interest in Entre Nous in the past 12 months
The organisation attracts females more than men
Entre Nous only markets to men because women, as they pass 30, actively seek out its services
Entre Nous believes it succeeds because it matches personalities, values, long term needs and lifestyles.
Entre Nous coaches those clients who need it, in life skills in order to increase their chances of finding a partner
Entre Nous refuses membership to people it feels are not ready for a serious relationship
Males tend to be more nervous about coming to an introductory service. They feel there is a stigma associated with joining up believing they should be able to find a partner themselves
Entre Nous accepts clients of all faiths and respects their needs and wants in this area.
Over 95% of men and 90% of women are successful/professionals
Over 90% of professionals are aged 25-65 years
98% would like a committed relationship with the right person
A national survey by Relationships Australia found that Australians regard "companionship/friendship" as the most important aspect of their relationship. "Honesty and trust" are second most valued.
(Source: Australian .Institute of Families, 2004; Relationships Australia)
By Ildi Amon
singles.net.au OR entrenous.com.au
The Entre Nous website, www.singles.net.au, is a value-added site aimed at assisting singles in all aspects of forming a relationship.
Background
Aside from extensive information about Entre Nous, we include a number of success stories and staff profiles, so that potential clients can find out more about the service we provide.
Resources
We have a live Forum which allows anyone to ask questions of our experienced panel. Personalised answers are posted within a week. The Men's Forum addresses issues relating to men's health, legal issues and more. The Dating Guide makes dating easy for those wanting the best restaurants, wines, cafes and florists to ensure the date runs smoothly. Finally, the detailed monthly newsletter is openly accessible providing readers with a wealth of information.
Member's Corner
This allows Member's to instantly leave messages and feedback. It is important for our busy clients to be able to contact us whenever it is convenient for them.
Events
We offer our clients regular weekly dance classes, workshops and Relationship Education.
Personality Quiz
Learn what kind of personality you have and how that affects your relationship potential. Find out which of the 7 personality types you are and which personality type best suits you.
Win a Date!
Go in the competition to win a mini Entre Nous membership.
Self Help
Find out more about how Life Coaching, Power of Attraction Workshops and Relationship Education Program and how an Image Consultant could improve your chances of relationship success.
The Entre Nous website is your bible when embarking on the dating journey.
By Ildi Amon
Entre Nous An Overview
Entre Nous is Melbourne's leading introduction agency. Entre Nous' success rests in its careful selection of clients. Catering specifically for professionals, prospective clients know that they will be meeting like-minded, successful people.
With Quality Assurance Accreditation, Entre Nous takes a professional approach to the initial stages of dating.
Relationships and love don't necessarily match with the time-commitments of busy professionals and so Entre Nous takes the work out of finding a partner.
We work to understand each client's personality and match based on shared values. We provide tools to ensure clients have the best chance at relationship success. These include life coaching, image consulting, relationship education and counselling. A holistic approach.
Entre Nous caters for every age group as well as niche markets such as practicing Christians and other faiths.
Entre Nous also offers events each month to cater for those who want to increase their social networks and increase their confidence.
Rosalind Baker identified the need for a quality introduction service for Melbourne's professionals almost 20 years ago.
Entre Nous is based on Christian ethics and succeeds due to its commitment to understanding the personalities and needs of members as well as its commitment to innovation and improvement.
The Entre Nous process has proved to be enormously successful with over 1000 marriages and the weekly formation of many relationships.
By Ildi Amon
How Entre Nous Operates
Entre Nous is Australia's only introduction agency with Quality Assurance Accreditation. This ensures that this delicate and personal service is always handled in the most professional fashion.
Entre Nous attracts members to its large data base through strategic marketing campaigns and word of mouth.
In order to sufficiently match the needs of clients, at any one time Entre Nous targets people of certain age, religious background and other characteristics.
Many people attend Entre Nous events before becoming Members. This allows them to experience the spirit of Entre Nous. The elegant events are a popular way to boost social confidence and increase social networks. However, others prefer to become Members immediately because of its 89% success rate and safety factor.
New Entre Nous Members are given an in depth, personlised briefing as well as a Guide Book to ensure they feel comfortable with the process. In addition, Entre Nous staff ensures they gain a full understanding of the personality and needs of clients.
Then using many "long standing" techniques relating to personality similarities, interests, educational backgrounds and even appearance, the matching begins.
When meeting for the first three times, Members are asked to adhere to a series of rules involving areas such as respect of privacy, keeping initial telephone conversations brief and a request that every introduction leads to at least three meetings.
It's strongly advised that "romance" not be on the agenda at the initial meetings.
The Entre Nous service requires an investment, but it has helped establish many, successful, long term, loving relationships. Considering the importance of such relationships in life happiness and even career success, the investment is well worth it. By Ildi Amon
Rosalind Baker Biography
Rosalind Baker's professional commitment to "match making" is well into its second decade, although she has always possessed that innate ability to pair people off. She even introduced her ex-husband to his next wife!
Having established Entre Nous: Relationship Consultants & Educators in 1991 she has now lost count of the number of relationships the dating agency has helped to establish.
While there have been some "fly-by-night" introduction agencies over the past two decades in Melbourne, Entre Nous has stood the test of time. This is due, in no small part, to the professionalism and passion of Rosalind Baker.
She has written three best sellers. The first, "Dial A Woman" offers advice to Australian men on how to choose the right partner and then maintain a successful relationship.
The obvious sequel, "Dial A Man" advised women on how to recognise and attract the man of their dreams. While writing her third book, "Dial a Personality", she realised she had discovered the successful formula for matching couples.
As a journalist Rosalind has written extensively on social affairs and women's issues and is a well-known social commentator on courtship.
Rosalind has been the delegate representing Australian and New Zealand at the International Institute of Introduction Services.
BAKER (previously Smith nee Neville) Rosalind Irene, Australian, born 16th June, Brisbane, Queensland. Married to Thomas A Baker
1 daughter, 3 sons (1 dec.), 11 grandchildren.
Author: Dial a Woman, Dial a Man and Dial a Personality; numerous articles on relationships: www.entrenous.com.au/articles
Public Speaker: relationships, dating, communication and motivation
Her first book, Dial A Woman published October 1989, offers advice to Australian males: How to choose the correct woman for a successful relationship. The sequel for women, Dial A Man: How to recognise and lure the man of your dreams until he captures you forever was released April 1990.
Both were best-sellers and made a comeback with the release of Dial A Personality. Dial A Personality: The seven personalities within each woman. How to recognise them within yourself and others: inspires one to draw on the strengths of the - not normally active - personality types and to avoid the weaknesses of those not conducive to a harmonious inner-self.
A keen photographer, Rosalind has had several photographs published. Like everything that interests her, she is passionate about opera, the Arts and reading; is a keen Scrabble player and swims and walks regularly.
Public Speaker: relationships, dating, communication and motivation
Recreation: swimming, cycling, reading, writing and the Arts, Scrabble and backgammon.
Author: Dial a Woman, Dial a Man and Dial a Personality
Appointments:
Owner & founder, Entre Nous Introduction Service 1991
Director Integrated Leadership Group 2005 - 2008 www.marketplaceconnections.com/ILG/ILG_aboutus
Relationships Columnist - Toorak Metropolitan News 2003/04
Relationships Columnist - Chinese Daily 2003/04
Features Writer & Columnist - Singles Magazine 1993 - 1994
Columnist - Melbourne Secretary 1993
Features Writer - H B & B Magazine 1992 -
Women's Editor - Toorak Times 1989-1990
Features Writer - Single Life Magazine 1991 - 1993
Columnist - Toorak Times 1987-1989
Guest Speaker - Australian Management College 1986-1988
Owner & founder - Rosalind's Shopping Tours 1985-1988
Marketing Manager - Shipping Industry 1979-85
Owner and founder - Rosalind Children' Wear 1964-79
Articles Published Recently 2008/9
www.articlesbase.com/authors/rosalind-baker/102812.htm
http://www.google.com.au/search?hl=en&q=Relationship+Advice+Melbourne&btnG=Google+Search&meta=
midlifejourney.com/index.php/2008/12/27/managing-the-risk-in-relationships/ - 32k -
Television Appearances 1990 - 2008
Sunrise Channel 7
Good Morning Australia
Eye on Australia (Channel 9 Brisbane 6.30 pm)
Real Life - Australia's 10 Worst Dressed Women Today Show - Channel 9
The Morning Show - Channel 10
Adelaide Today - Channel 9
Real Life - Channel 7
The Today Show
Eye On Australia
A Current Affair
Coast to Coast
Sky Channel
Adelaide Today
Lady for a Day - Adelaide
Ray Martin Midday Show
Pick of the Week - Ray Martin
Steve Vizard Show
Robbo's World
Books by Rosalind Baker (nee Neville) Dial A Woman, Dial A Man & Dial A Personality www.entrenous.com.au/books
Questions: www.entrenous.com.au/faq
Contact Us
Rosalind Baker, Principal
Telephone: (03) 9669 6000 or 0417 119 404
Email: rb@entrenous.com.au
Entre Nous
Telephone: (03) 9669 6000
Fax: (03) 9663 8563
0402 017 243
W: singles.net.au
E: rb@entrenous.com.au
P: 1/21 Victoria Street, Melbourne VIC 3000
To find out your personality type: click here
To find out "Are you ready for a relationship?": click here
Books by Rosalind Baker (nee Neville) Dial A Woman, Dial A Man & Dial A Personality: See our books
Questions: See our FAQ
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For more information, please contact:
Rosalind Baker (nee Neville), Principal
Telephone: (03) 9669 6000 or 0402 017 243
Email: rb@entrenous.com.au
Books by Rosalind Baker (nee Neville):
Dial A Woman, Dial A Man & Dial A Personality
Questions: Frequenty Asked Questions
