How to Marry Off Your 'Ex'

Do you feel responsible for 'ex'? Feel a bit guilty that you have your freedom and can see that your 'ex' is still pining for you.
Would you feel more comfortable if your 'ex' was settled in a permanent relationship? I know because I introduced my 'ex' to his next wife.

There are many ways you can do this, for instance:

1 Host regular parties with only single people in attendance. (If your 'ex' is still pining for you and you are there each time it may not work.)

2 Persuade your 'ex' to join a singles tennis club or bushwalking club or similar so that he is out there meeting other singles. (Of course it won't work if 'he/she doesn't have the motivation.)
3 Persuade your 'ex' to spend Saturdays in the shopping aisles at the local supermarket and talk to people who shop on their own. For example say words to the affect: "I see you are buying brown rice, is it better for you than white rice?" (May not work if he/she is a very busy person.)

4 Suggest your 'ex' takes a singles cruise. He is sure to meet many interesting singles that way. (Although if he/she meets a person from interstate and decides to move interstate and you have young children you may have to move too to see the children regularly.)

5 Persuade your 'ex' to join an on-line dating service. (Although if your 'ex' hates dishonesty in others he/she won't thank you. I am told that people on dating sites use airbrushed photos or photos that are anything up to 30 years old.

People on dating sites are also not exactly truthful about their profile. Most people on dating sites are inclined to write a profile of how they would like to be rather than how they actually are.

Of course. if your 'ex' is a busy person and doesn't have much spare time, meeting a suitable person on an on-line site is a laborious and time consuming past-time.)

6 Finally, the best suggestion would be to encourage your 'ex' to join an introduction agency. Show them the Entre Nous website www.singles.net.au .

If your 'ex' is a Gen X or a Gen Y they will want to read up as much as they can about us beforehand. If your 'ex' is hesitant because of shyness or discomfort, offer to call the introduction agency yourself. Tell your 'ex' that you will pass on his/her details and to expect a call fairly promptly.

Tell your 'ex' that our receptionist will call him/her and invite them in for a coffee and a bit of a chat to find out what is important to them. We will show your 'ex' some profiles of suitable people to give him/her an idea of the type of people we have available for them to meet.

We will also show your 'ex' our Power Point Presentation of how our Membership Program works.

Reassure your 'ex' that there is no obligation to purchase and that he/she will be made welcome and put at ease.

Should your 'ex' not want you to call us, you could always
provide us with your 'ex's' details and we would be delighted to call him/her and keep calling until we have developed a relationship with your 'ex' so that he/she will eventually feel comfortable about paying us a visit.

Before you know it, your 'ex' will have a spring in his/her step and will be telling you how he/she has met a prospective partner. You never know your 'ex' may be indebted to you forever.

Rosalind Baker is the Principal and Founder of Entre Nous Introduction Agency Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, and author of 3 best sellers, Dial A Woman, Dial A Man and Dial A Personality

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